When you spot a young woman dating an older man, what’s the first thing that comes to mind? Usually there’s the assumption that he’s a sugar daddy, and she’s using him to gain financial benefits.
But the women below say otherwise — they say sometimes the benefits are more than financial, and the preference for more mature company trumps all others.
NO1. Is the instructor of your life.
older men can teach you a thing or two when it comes to life. And sometimes that’s what a younger women needs — a little guidance. These young guys nowadays are just themselves learning, so they have nothing to teach you.
NO2. Patient and warm.
Older men are more sexually mature and so are better able to initiate you more into this whole love thing. They are less likely to overreact if something should go wrong and are more patient as you learn and grow and come into your own as a sexual being.
NO3. His Experience Counts
When it comes to sex, an older men is perceived as knowing his way around the bedroom. He’s had to time to perfect his technique, and he can show his younger lover a good sexual time. With an older man, women don’t expect any awkward moments in the dark. They expect the guy to know exactly what he is doing and to take the time to meet their needs.
NO4. Meet the independent personality of young women
Many mature and independent minded women understand that relationships are about ‘mutual support and growth’ and not following the typical path laid out by the society of find a partner for financial security, have kids and then settle down in a standard life.
The same age guys are usually busy partying, working hard or in some cases just being ‘male chauvinist pigs’.
Many of them have not even cut the emotional ‘umbilical cord’ from their own family and have not become their own man. How will they support such a woman. They will only try to pull her into the standard life and domesticate her without regard to her dreams and aspirations.
So in essence often guys of same age do not have the maturity and outlook to respect an independent woman. They seem to be immature when it comes to relationship and connecting.
A man who is 10+ years older has seen life. Most likely matured through experience on relationship front and is willing to be the pillar of support and love that independent minded women needs in the society. An age difference relationship is herself independent and secure.